Today I read on Bianca's facebook page, that Matt will marry her. What a lucky day for her (and him, because she said "yes", to my knowledge ;-) )
But, what is a marriage good for? What do you think!?
I am together with my wife since 17 years and we are married since 10 years this summer.
When I was a little boy I want to marry my mom, today I won't. ;-) When I grew up there were a lot of little girls I want to marry, I think there was every month a new one, so are little boys. :-)
Then there was my first big Love, when I was 16, and I want to marry her, but it was only a holiday Love (at that time, sadly). After that, there was another big Love. She broke my heart.
And then there was Sandra (my wife). We were young and the first years, there was many ups and downs. After four years we move together in an apartment and after seven years we marry and two children came with it.
Life in marriage isn't always easy and funny. Everybody thought it should be and the most time it is, but not always. Sometimes you have to fight for your Love, sometimes there are tears and sometimes it isn't easy. You have to work for it, like in every relationship.
Many young people get divorced after a few years, because they forget, that every relationship is work. Work on yourself, work for the mate, work for the children and and and...
I Love my wife and I Love my family, also it isn't sometimes easy, but I Love to work on it...work for the Love...
A marriage is good. Good for Love and good for everyone who find his Love of life and who want seal it in the face of God, or the civil registry office... ;-)
So long,
Markus :-)
